Just like a small scale survey I asked few of my friends a Valentine's Day question..
Question was "If you gotta propose your love instantaneously without pre-planning, we will provide you ring, rose, candy or watever if you want... How will you?"
Keerthi, Srikanth and Swathi said they never thought of such thing till now...
Sireesha said that she will be confident while speaking. Explaining how their frequencies match and how special that person is in her life...
Charles-Hmmm.. I will go straight to her with a rose when she is alone.. and look straight into her eyes and say 'I love you and tell her that without her my life would be something of no use. I will tell that i would have waited an eternity to get a place in her heart..
Leena- Ten out of thousand girls propose a guy.. i'm not in that ten
Bindu-Shy filled voice and soft indirect expression of love..
Ashwin- Simple direct I like you..
Chandan- Will take on a roller coaster ride..lol.. and then tell what I feel...
Muhammed-I m madly in love with you.. Please accept my love as a gift for life..
Ibrahim-Cant propose on marriage day..lol.. me against love..Anti-valentine
Sneha-soft and sophisticated so as to make him feel comfortable..
Lawrence-A plain paper is enough for me..Hmmm.. I would just write her name and my name as her surname..
Anonymous (male)-Will take her to lonely place, well lighted and will tell his feelings with a cool present like "Teddy bear" written like "my heart beats for you!"
Anonymous-1(female)-Candle lit dinner with music being played especially "guitar".. Indirect approach with greeting card...
Anonymous-2(female)-First will try to guess how he may respond to this and then decide how to.. Indirect approach only preferred.. (Few of the above are committed.. )
Most of the girls are out of the thought that it's guy who should propose kinda thing..
But the most important thing is only two of the above list knew the fact that propose means the ques "Will you marry me?" not "I love you".. Sneha and Lawrence... All the people included are between 18-23...
Anyways.. "Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful nor conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people's sins but delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes." as I heard in "A walk to remember"..
But I request people to believe in word "eternal love".. Dont form opinions based on teenage love.. Its not a game or fun filled activity.. Its life long promise you make..
Happy Valentine's Day junta... Use this occasion to express your feelings for the first time and not like an anniversary...and no embarassing stuff in public.
P.S. Dont ever ditch or take lite your friends for spending time with your love coz its them who listen to all your feelings and your love story with patience even if they are not interested, and render their shoulder when you break into tears after a break up or hurt by your love...
Song from Santhosham, Music by R.P.Patnaik, Lyrics by Chandra Siddhartha, Sung by Rajesh..
So much to say that I love you
Now that so much I need you
How would it be if you leave me
Feel it for me to believe me
I want to love but not alone
Living for you and dying for you
I want to love but not alone
Living for you and dying.... for you!!!!!!!!!!!
Referred-
http://www.groomgroove.com/marriage_proposals/category/funny/
http://www.moneysitter.com/Quotes/AmazingFacts/stvalentinesday.htm
http://www.allweddingideas.com/symbols-love.shtml
amolife.com/reviews/top-20-most-famous-love-stories-in-history-and-literature.html
www.mydearvalentine.com
"@Bindu-Shy filled voice and soft indirect expression of love.."
ReplyDeleteHey.. this aint fair lol...!!
this is the toughest thing for a Guy to understand..like.. "wat does that shy filled voice and those indirect expression mean??? "
Guy's are the dumbest thing in the whole world .. pls don do this yaar :-P ;-)
wats not fair..? wat more a gal can do..?
ReplyDelete@lens :
ReplyDeletehuh.. ??? wat more??
oke lets put it this way.. lol
how can a guy know "tat the look is really for him or somother guy behind him.. lol,. haha.. so jus speak it out... dudette.. (bindu) ;-)
nice survey :)
ReplyDeleteoye... if he doesnt knw dat she is lukin at him r the one behind ...he is nt worth to b proposed..! got 't?
ReplyDelete@amit: thnk u... :)
ReplyDelete@elvish kid and lens: eyes express feelings more than ur words..but i do accept guys are dumb..nyways may b late guy obviously can understand gal who is loving him..
@lens :
ReplyDeleteThats wat I say.."the primary issue is the way u express ur proposal.. yaar" Most of the times the guy is supposed to get into a wrong looks and his love ends up with brotherhood lol!! (pity for my fellow brotherhoods)
Now tell me wats the prob frankly propose or accept tat u r in love wit the guy.. yaar..
@navya : why u r still in hema malini and pandari bai style lol..!! we are now a century past from those kinda proposals. gals dont want a pigeon proposal anymore nor the guys.. Someone reaches ur girl before ur pigeon reaches her.. lol :-P "
"THe Major reason is the Girl dont want to get ignored by a Guy"
ReplyDeleteit maybe egoistic attitude whatever... Guys till need a century to invent something to read wats in a Girls mind.." till then this debate is not gonna end..!!!
Your Talking with your Eyes .. Holy Hell for the Guy listening to it..
PS : (i didnt mean the about eye conversations between lovers .. i meant abt Proposing )
@elvish kid
ReplyDeleteu cant expect a gal to cum infront of u n say a strt frwd "I love you" r nt even a I like you especially wen she hv sum feelings for him.. i mean a majority..
eye conversation.. even i accept its old... (nt for me)..
pigeon thing is toooooooooo filmy..
ReplyDelete@elvish:
ReplyDeletec... if a gal proposes a guy... n the guy replies... i never thot of u dat way..! dats the worse thing tht can ever happen to a gal...!
and more thing is GALS can never say a straight frwd i luv u..!(mostly)
gals r really very sensitive compared to guys....they can't accept sisterhood too..!
ReplyDeleteif he says " i thot u to be my little sister " tht will b the last day in her lyf..!
@lens : yea me too meant the same way gurls. are too sensitive.. or scared of getting ignored...
ReplyDeleteand remember a guy ignoring a gurls proposal that dont happen often its something like a Eclipse happenin once in some hundred decade lol.. !!
@navya : that pigeon thing meant for fun lol..!! don take tat seriously.. lol.. !! :D
Guess wat . most guys likes classic women to be their soulmates haha.. not the trendy one's lol...!! trendy ones don make good spouse for a man.. as the classic one does..!!
PS: "all these happened cos of that Bindu's.. opinion..!! lol !! wher s she??? :D
Come here wit a White Flag... !! :P