So guys.. As usual for the final post I have collected opinions from people about a question related to unhappy singles.
The question goes as..
"you have a best friend who broke up with his/her girl friend/boy friend and the girl/boy moved on (in love with someone else) but your friend still thinks of him/her. What will you do?"
And the response goes...
vineesha: To overcome ..may b she can go for things which she is intersted in.. join a dance class, go shopping, get a makeover....do something intersting which diverts her mind...
bindu: i will slap her to forget him, find a new one for her
Sneha: well 1st thing will be to never leave the frnd alone to show tht there are others who care for her... love shouldnt hurt the ppl involved so just give her some time and then start introducing her into ur company n telling her that she will get a much better guy in future
Monica: Tell her "He doesnt deserve you. Pack him."
Leena: Make her understand that there is no point in thinking about the guy who doesnt love her
Shilpa: As in when he has no feelings for her, she should understand that he doesnt deserve her
and tell her there are better ones for her in the world
Tanuja: Divert her into other interests she is passionate about.
Anonymous female 1: Show her that he was a useless fellow.
Sriram: if he is a true lover he wont cry becuse his loved once is moving with her loved o so she will be more happy. a true lover wants his/her loved once's happyness..
tsumn: i wud always say...be happy dear, that was not at all ur true love, else she had not eva left u and also thank her, coz she broke wid u, u can live livelier widot ne bonds of commitment
Akhil: Then he should tell her, "i am not able to forget you. I will remember you forever . It was my mistake to break with you. I wanna be with you, live with you, die with you"
Siddharth: Girl is happy without him, so as he is a true lover, he too should be happy for her and tell him that there is no need to be sad.
Muhammed: tough..ma advice wuld be to ask him/her to move on. once d gal likes somebody els, its hard.. soo many things wuld change. hmm.. i don think i can do anything... jus divert his mind. and tell him dat its fate.. u'll always get somebody els..
Charles: I would tell him that she is not worth his love.
Anonymous male 1: Dont let him talk with that girl, distract him if possible get him a new gir
Anonymous male 2: Tell him when he is born only his parents are there with him so only they will be with him forever not someone who comes and goes. so its not necessary that he should feel that much for someone else who came and went off. Ask him to analyse what was the problem in their relationship so that he wont repeat with next girl
Anonymous male 3: I will advice to my friend to take a bottle of alcohol n sit on roadside and booz. If I give good advice he'll never listen.
I found many asking me back, whether it is correct or not after giving their opinions. Some asked me mine.
Mine... ??? All the above.. Yes.. Coz the gist, the essence of each opinion is to be happy.. Thats the ultimate motive. Do what makes you happy. Don't you see that all have different approaches? Take what you like. But be happy. Hope for it. As we all deserve it.
"Love is like a fairy tale in the middle of ordinary life" One of my friends' Facebook status.
A few lines from the movie "When in Rome" charmed me..
"You could get your heart broken or you could have the greatest love affair the world has ever known, but you do not know unless you try. The passion is in the risk."
So true..
Folks.. Happy Valentines Day..
Sources:
Times of India
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ReplyDeletegreat going . .thanks