Friendship and Love

a boy met with a bike accident. he knows he is going to die. so he did msg to his lover and to his best frnd too. "I am going. good bye" within two mins he got a msg frm his lover.. "where r u gng dear. do recharge to my phone and go" the boy's heart began to pain, a sec later he got a msg frm his frnd.. it said" wer da hell u r goin vdout me dude.. wait i am coming!" d boy smiles. his eyes close, his heart stops.

frnd kita sanda potutu kadhali kita sonna kadhali solluva "enaku apave theriyum avanapathi. Avan frndship'a cut pannu da" kadhali kita sanda potutu frnd kita sonna frnd solluvaan "machan thangachi romba nallava da.. yetho theriyama pesi irupa. avlothan. po muthala poi sry kelu da."
(If you had a argument with your friend and tell this to gf, she says, "I know him well, I warned you before itself. Avoid him" If you had an argument with your gf and tell this to friend, he/she says. "Dude, she is a very good person. She must have spoken silly things unknowingly. Apologise her right now") -I heard the girl version of this too...


This is just a short post on the recent poll I put on my blog.

Friendship vs love. It isn't about dilemma about considering a relationship in any of the above ways or friends turning into lovers. Not yet brave enough to take such never ending topics. It is about clash of relationships for a person.

Friend & Lover. Well, any young chap can easily and clearly explain the importance of friendship in their life, How it is vital. Not that later you lose its need. Just that burden of responsibilities make you 'lil' selfish. (Mano ya na mano). Love is also something which blooms at the same time.. (Biology frnds kehte hai ki "ye sab hormones ka khel hai"). Not all youth but majority do experience this too. Then why should be a clash between two VIPs? My fault. Why wont there be a clash?




Coming to my poll, it says 72% of people can part their bf/gf but not a best friend. (Baadh mein jaye bechara bf/gf. hain na??) Then why should there be sms like above? Fight huh? There are only few who isolate friends, rest are ready to dump lover. If such break up happen, take your guy friend to a drink and female friend to shopping. And help them forget the past and move on. Hang out. Have fun and safely drop him/her at their house. But you cant make them sleep. No, not after giving up something valuable.

Fine, I am not being ironic about friendship and seeing only brighter side of love. It applies similarly the other way too.(if your gf/bf forces you to give up friend). I am trying to fix up peace treaty. If you really do not like your friend's bf/gf, take time to at least accept. This isn't the case when you are sure that person is a fraud. I have heard of a girl who didn't inform her friend about her friend's bf cheating on her just not to lose her or get into complications. Simply "Hame kya?" attitude. (Ye kaisa frndship hua?"). I heard about another instance when a girl couldn't digest that her best friend got committed and didnt talk to her for days. (Ye bhi friendship nahi hai)

I have no idea of the statistics of such issue (as only 18 good souls voted in my poll) and how many people undergo such problem. But I recently saw an old Telugu movie in which the heroine asks hero if she is the only one in his heart. Hero answers that his mother also co exists. Then heroine asks him to compare his heart to a glass full of milk and herself to milk. She questions him how can anyone else occupy. He simply adds a spoon of sugar.
Just want to remind that mind & soul of a person will be peaceful and emotional attitude will be cool only if the relationships in his life accommodate each other. I sincerely want to warn girl/boy that you can't be a part of a happy person's life erasing his past.
Friendship, you are worth losing love. But isn't love worth to coexist with you?


P.S. Apologies if anyone's feelings are hurt. This is just a set of my opinions. Thanks to people who voted in my poll.