Here are the stories I heard and loved.
Story
1:
My husband and I were part of same
training batch. A lot of us in my batch were not local to chennai and we got to
hangout a lot as a group during the first few months of training. My husband
was the local bakra with a good old Omni, that we all used to go out in! So
basically we got to spend a lot of time together and know each other.
Its tough to say that there are just
few things i liked about him. But, if i have to mention a few, it might be
1. He was charismatic, intellectual,
and attached to family
2. respects women and believes that
women should be independent and should not be stuck to home.
3. person of high values, forward
thinker, disciplined and God fearing
4. Never smoked or touched alcohol
which i was particular about.
Lastly, he used write letters which I treasure till date.
Oh yeah.. He is actually not that yoyo
guy. Would be happy with a laptop, comfortable couch and some music. But then
during those days he used to organize a lot of outings with friends so we could
hangout ever more 😃. He had even planned an entire trip
to munnar with 25 of us, so we could spend more time together. But didnt
realize this hidden agenda for a very long time.
Story
2
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Catching my hand when I am scared though I
didn't ask him to
·
Without saying a word making me feel I am not
alone in anything
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Silently protecting me, letting me have fun
without boundaries and staying around since I will need him later on (like when
I drunk or tired)
·
When he said any of his celebrations are
incomplete without me (never expected me to reciprocate)
·
When he alters his plans to just accommodate
an hour with me
·
Talking with me all night since I am not able
to sleep
·
Got me some childhood chocolates which I
thought didn't exist anymore ( when I knew he is paying attention to all little
things I say)
·
Making me do unconventional things like
winking in a train or giving flying kiss in a public place or dancing with
unknown crowd
Story
3
romantic gestures. ..Unconditional
love & kindness....has time for pleasant conversations often.
Story
4
I remember her adjusting her wavy hair
away from her face... She used to slide those curly strands behind her ear... She
would do it with such elegance and grace... Used to stare at her like
anything.... I sware I could look at her for eons... Sheer beauty!!!
Sometimes she finds out that I'm
staring...
A simple question with her eyes
"Enna?"
And I'm like "Onnum illa" and
heads down with a smile...
I dono what to call this
But for me it was happiness
I used to feel out of this world
But she is one soul who can understand
the unspoken words by having a glance at my eyes!
Story
5
I toh like everything bey😋
The way he talks, walks, eats, sleeps, fights etc etc
When I met him the second time, I saw
him walk around the room. He was
speaking in Telugu about some office work.
I was flat that very moment the way he
was walking, talking and his hand gestures 😍😍
Also, the way he strokes his hair like
SRK 🤩🤩
Story
6
The common ideas, Listening, time
spent, some kind of validation to my thoughts and ideas and choices, making me
overcome the thought of not being enough. It's always incremental
Story
7
I would say her personality,
simplicity and when we met, we could talk about everything
Story
8
Friendly and jovial nature, boldness, Traditional thinking when
it comes to customs, food, dressing etc.
I had a fight with her long back, wen
she was carrying. She was trying to pacify me after the fight. I ignored her, and unexpectedly she started
crying. I still feel guilty of making her cry that day (made her cry many times
after that too😜) .
But it was also an incident which made me realise that how much love and
attention she expected from me.
Story
9
Actually i love his dimples
After our engagement we met at one
restaurant in his hometown. On that day he gifted me a watch. He was too shy
while giving me that and words not coming out properly. I actually attracted to
his innocence and his innocent dimples
Story
10
How comfortable I felt around her ,
her warm and genuine smile which symbolizes general happiness and her
comfortable ease in situations , her
incredibly charming personality , her
guffaws that is undeniably attractive
Specifics
- When she takes care of me when I’m sick and
end up catching my viral a couple of days after
- When she plays with kids in my apartment and
goes back to being a 5 year old herself
- Fact that she has big ambitious dreams for
her/our future
- The way she gets excited over her mom's food
and eats like a horse instead of eating like a bird
- Very fact that she is capable of quickly
calming me down with her hug when I have had the worse days
- Her voice when she's sleepy
- The way she is protective over her parents
Story
11
Their willingness to settle for less
in life 😇
Story
12
The fact that what is important to me
matters to him, remembers them and indirectly shows it. He cares for my friends
and family more than I do as he knows that they matter the most to me. Which
was one of the things which most impressed me before the wedding.
My opinions matter. I am not taken for
granted. For someone like me, I think that means that I feel valued and
respected..
Him scolding me when I don't take care
of myself and small surprises like, making sure he has dinner ready for me when
I text him that I had a long day.
Or him explaining things where I go
wrong with patience and tolerating my impatience.
One thing definitely was the proposal
I had.. (Romantic proposal in arranged marriage)
Story
13
Simplicity and honesty I guess
And for tomorrow, that's a surprise.